Italian
1. Mandola - www.mandolasmarket.com
4700 west Gaudalupe suite 12
Good Italian food, can sit outside, they have Italian groceries to buy.
Suitable for families.
Don’t need to make reservations.
2. Vespaio - www.austinvespaio.com
1610 s. congress
3. Romano’s Macaroni Grill - www.macaronigrill.com
9828 Great Hills Trail
A chain with ok Italian food. Big portions, big restaurant, family friendly.
Don’t need to make reservations.
4. Olive Garden - www.olivegarden.com
A big chain, family friendly, big portions, good service.
No need for reservations.
Barbeque
1. Rudy’s - www.rudys.com
They have 3 places in Austin.
Good barbecue, nice atmosphere, self service, low prices.
2. Salt Lick - www.saltlicbbq.com
18001 FM 1826 Driftwood, TX
About 20-30 minutes drive from downtown Austin. Good traditional
food, nice location, sometimes have live music. You can bring alcoholic
beverages because they don’t sell them.
Steak house
1. Salt Grass - www.saltgrass.com
10614 Research Blv Between w. Braker Lane and Great Hills Trail
Great Steaks, Family friendly. You can make reservation.
2. Austin Land and Cattle - www.austinlandandcattle.com
1205 North Lamar blvd.
Great steaks, high prices, not family friendly
Need to make reservation
Mexican
1. Fonda San Miguel - www.fondasanmiguel.com
2330 W. North Loop
Great restaurant, nice decorations, great food. On Sundays they have great
brunch ($45 per person). Need to make reservation.
2. El Arroya - www.ditch.com
Tex mex food. They have few locations in Austin.
Asian
1. Madam Mam’s Noodles & More - 2514 Guadalupe st.
Good Thailand food, near the university, low prices. No need to make reservation.
2. Triumph Café - www.triumphcafe.com
3808 spicewood springs
Vietnams restaurant with a nice back yard, good food and low prices.
No need to make reservation.
Others
Cheese Cake Factory - www.thecheescakefactory.com
1000 Research Blvd. Suite 4601, at the Arboretum Mall
A big American style chain, family friendly. Lots of dishes to choose from.
Fresh Choice - www.freshchoice.com
9761 Great Hills Trail
Eat as much as you whish, big salad bar, pasta, bread, soups and deserts.
La Madeleine - www.lamadeleine.com
There are a few branches in Austin. Self service of salads, soups, sandwiches, coffee and deserts.
Super Markets
HEB - you can find kosher and Israeli food at the Far west branch.
Randalls
Whole Foods - www.wholefoodsmarket,com
Central Market - www.centralmarket.com
There is a playground and restaurant at the central location (4001 N. Lamar Blvd.). Sometimes they have live shows (especially during the weekend).
Tags: Food, israeli products, restaurants, stores
If you’re looking for a cheap calling card for Israel
this one offers a 1.9c per minute, no activation fee, no minimum sec/min per call, no rounding seconds, pretty good deal. Call 1-877-951-2022 (it’s an israeli guy in NY named Itzik
or visit:
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Shalom Y’all, A new grocery store has opened in
Dallas called Milk and Honey.
In addition to many different Israeli products they also bake Israeli style Pitot which are Kosher Parve under supervision of Vaad a Kashrus of Dallas. We’d like to offer Israelis and fans of Israeli food fresh baked Pitot for sale at the Austinuts store.
Orders placed by Tuesday morning at 10 AM will be available for pick up on Friday between the hours of 10am to 6 pm. The price per a bag of 5 fresh Pitot is $ 3.00.
You must pre order your Pitot ! How to order:
You can call the Austinuts store (10am-6pm) at 323-6887Fax your order to the store at 323-6889E-mail your order at info@austinuts.comPlease provide your full mane , day phone number and the number of bags you’d like to order. Thank you,
Cipi & Doron Ilai Austinuts
Tags: israeli food, israeli products, pitot
Get your free credit report, once a year: http://www.annualcreditreport.com/
Read here about it: http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/credit/freereports.shtm
Tags: credit report
New veterinary hospital opened this month in north Austin.
Beautiful facility and hebrew speaking management.
Tags: hebrew, veterinary services
On June 3 from 12 -4 we are having our Splash Bash. It is a fun- filled afternoon for the entire family. Come enjoy food, music, fun inflatables swimming and hanging out with your friends and a chance for some great giveaways. It is open to members and non-members. We are looking for families to get acquainted and involved with the J through volunteering. If anyone could give an hour to volunteer we would really appreciate it! Please contact Erin @ 735-8026 if you can join our volunteer Shalom Star team.
***This weekend***

2:45 - 3:30 - The Biscuite Brothers
$5 in advanced, $8 at the door. In the community room.
Brought by: the child development center at Congragation Beth Israel
$5 in advanced, $8 at the door. In the community room.Brought by: the child development center at Congragation Beth Israel
3:30-5:30 pm - Open and FREE to the entire community - Kids Fun
Celebrate Israel’s 59th birthday! Get your Israeli passport and have fun with games, music, crafts, skill activities, face painting and yummy food. Create a fabulous kippah and challenge yourself to Israeli Twister. Pet animals at our kibbutz, make sand art, jump around in the moon jump, and purchase arts and crafts from the Israeli shuk. Try on a Tzahal soldier’s uniform and sit in a Bedouin tent with mint tea while watching Shalom Sesame and Kippi ben Kippod. Write messages to be sent to the Western Wall in Jerusalem, watch films about Israel, listen to our community children’s choirs and a whole lot more!
5:30 pm - 8:30 pm – Dinner Program
Continue the celebration by joining us for an evening dinner event in honor of Israel @ 59.
Music, catered festive Israeli meal, Masuot (torches) will be lit by distinguished educators in our community in honor of Israel, personal stories from those that lived in Israel, film, Shira b’tzibur (community sing-a-long) led by celebrated song leader Etti Luz.
To register for this event go to www.shalomaustin.org and link to the Israel Independence Day icon.
All proceeds from the dinner will go to the Noar Israel Youth Scholarship Fund. Kosher dinner available upon request. Call 735-8034.
$25 Adults/$15 Children, Seniors, College Students with ID
Babysitting and dinner for children ages 5 and up, is available at $15 per child and $7.50 for additional children, pizza dinner included. Call 735-8050 to register.
All proceeds from the dinner will go to the Israel Youth Scholarship Fund.
Tags: 59th, Beth Israel, israel independence day, jcaa, Kids
Yom HaZikaron
Commemoration for Israel’s Fallen @ JCAA Social Hall
April 22, 1-2:15 PM
Speaker: Asher Yarden, Consul General of Israel to the Southwest
Let us honor all those who made the ultimate sacrifice for our country!
Tags: israeli memorial day, jcaa, yom hazikaron
Auditorium Shores concert will showcase Austin music
Where: Auditorium Shores
Admission: Free, but limited to the first 20,000 people.
When: May 19. Gates open at 5:30 p.m. Short movie starts at 6:50 p.m. Music runs from 7 to 10:30 p.m.
Performers: Kris Kristofferson, Bonnie Raitt and local performers of everything from blues to gospel to rock ‘n’ roll and classical.
Sponsor: Freescale Semiconductor Inc.
Tickets and more info: www.roadtoaustinconcert.com
Tags: auditorium shores, concert, free, music
Welcome to the new and improved IsraelAustin.com.
The website got a face lift (new design) and a nip/tuck (out with all the clatter…).
Two of the major improvements are the brand new RSS feed we have for the site. And the ability to have guest writers…
As always you can find wealth of information about life in Austin and being an Israeli/Jew in Austin. Where to buy food, what to do with kids and without them, relevant tips for job search and much much more.
Enjoy!
Efrat - IsraelAustin.com.
Tags: general info, rss
Insurers keep a secret history of your home
A huge database not only tracks claims, it also looks for risks such as toxic mold. That’s why homeowners with even minor water damage are being canceled — and are sometimes unable to sell.
By Liz Pulliam Weston
Orifinally published in MSN Money in 2002 http://moneycentral.msn.com
You probably know that it’s not a good idea to make too many claims on your homeowners insurance policy because your insurer could drop you.
What you might not know is that making a claim could make selling your home more difficult down the road. What’s more, you could find your home’s value damaged or a sale jeopardized even if a previous owner, and not you, made a claim.
Insurers increasingly are using a huge industry database, called the Comprehensive Loss Underwriting Exchange or CLUE, to drop or deny coverage based on a home’s history of claims or damage reports.
Insurance companies are terrified of rising losses from water and mold damage. So a single report of water-related problems may be enough for insurers to shun your home.
Jan and Kevin Garder of Bremerton, Wash., discovered this the hard way. The Garders thought they were doing the right thing when they told their insurance company, State Farm, about some minor water damage caused by a rainstorm last year.
Consumers held hostage
The couple, who say they had been with their insurer for 30 years without filing a claim, ultimately decided not to file one this time, either.
That didn’t stop State Farm from dropping them as customers, they say. Not only that, but they say State Farm also shared the damage information with the CLUE database. When the Garders applied for coverage elsewhere, the other insurers cited State Farm’s damage report as the reason they wouldn’t write a policy, Jan Garder said.
“Until then, we didn’t know anything about the CLUE database,” she said. “We really didn’t have a clue.”
State Farm declined to comment on the Garders’ case, citing privacy concerns. Spokeswoman Lisa Wang said the insurer shares only claims information with CLUE, not damage reports.
But the company that operates CLUE, ChoicePoint of Alpharetta, Ga., said that the database collects damage reports as well as claims. The information stays in the database for up to five years, said James Lee, ChoicePoint’s chief marketing officer.
The Garders say they finally secured bare-bones fire coverage for about $1,000 a year, more than three times what they paid previously for full homeowners coverage.
What’s more, the problem is derailing their plans to sell their home. The Garders say they have been told by their real estate agent and others that they may have a tough time getting a good price for a home that’s already been rejected by many insurers.
“You are totally blackballed,” said Jan Garder, 49. “They should not be able to hold a consumer hostage like this.”
Insurance companies get aggressive
In previous years, insurers used the CLUE database in large part to watch for fraud and for consumers who had a history of filing numerous claims.
After losing nearly $9 billion on homeowners insurance last year, however, insurance companies have become more aggressive about screening for other risks — including damaged homes that could spawn future claims.
State Farm, which lost $5 billion last year on its various insurance lines, has been among the most aggressive in weeding out unwanted risks. The nation’s largest property insurer has dropped thousands of policyholders from coast to coast and stopped writing homeowners insurance in several states.
So far, insurers’ increased use of the CLUE database has not caused serious problems for the booming real estate industry, said George Tribble, a member of the National Association of Mortgage Brokers’ board of directors.
But Tribble said he has heard a number of anecdotal reports of residential sales falling through at the last minute because of CLUE-related problems in securing insurance. He fears the problem could get worse if insurers begin to shy away from homes that have had even minor damage.
“Right now, it’s still a pretty isolated problem,” Tribble said, “but that could change if they (insurers) continue to do this. … If you’re not able to get insurance, you’re not able to close the deal.”
Tribble thinks it’s particularly unfair that a home could be blackballed because of one claim, let alone a single report of damage that didn’t lead to a claim.
“Insurance companies want to keep their costs down, which is understandable,” Tribble said, “but this is what you have insurance for — to cover you for accidents.”
The insurance industry is notorious for its manic-depressive cycles. In profitable years, companies will slash premiums, boost coverage and take on big risks in hopes of gaining market share. When those risks start costing real money, the companies sound the full retreat — hiking premiums, dropping customers and shunning risk.
What’s notable about their most recent mood swing was how quickly it happened, spurred in large part by last year’s losses and the massive increase in mold-related claims, especially in Texas and California.
How to protect yourself
While you can’t do much about insurers’ overreactions, you can do something to protect yourself in this particularly difficult time. Among them:
- Keep your home in good repair. A solid, watertight roof, good plumbing and a decent paint job can protect your home from various water disasters — the kind of damage that’s scaring insurers the most these days. It’s a good idea to regularly check the hoses on your clothes- and dish-washing machines, since cracked or burst hoses often lead to serious water damage.
- Keep your deductible high. Pay for smaller expenses out of your own pocket. Homeowners insurance should be reserved for the big disasters, not the little problems you can easily pay for yourself.
- Think twice about water-related claims. This is especially true if you plan to sell within a few years. You could be better off paying to repair the problem yourself rather having your home be branded as high risk.
- Don’t tell your insurer about problems unless you’re sure you’ll file a claim. This last piece of advice is unfortunate, because insurers and insurance agents can be a decent source of counsel on whether it’s worth filing a claim. Since any damage you report could get passed on to the CLUE database, however, it’s smart now to err on the side of caution.
- Consider getting a copy of your CLUE report. If you’ve been denied insurance, you can get a copy of your home’s CLUE report for free; otherwise, you’ll pay about $8. You have a right under federal law to dispute any erroneous information on the report. To get a copy, contact ChoicePoint (see link at left under Related Sites). Currently, you’ll need to mail in your request, although the company hopes to have an online version by the end of the month.
Tags: CLUE, homeowners, insurance, insurance companies, insurance policy
You can borrow too much or prepare too little. You can misjudge terms or overestimate your credit. With so much at stake, it’s no wonder so much can go wrong.
By Liz Pulliam Weston
Original article in MSN Money in 2002 http://moneycentral.msn.com
Applying for a mortgage can be a daunting experience.
It’s not enough that you’re agreeing to take on the biggest debt of your life, one that represents two to three times your annual income. You’re also confronted with piles of paperwork, flurries of fees and a tidal wave of terms, from amortization to title insurance, whose meaning is fuzzy at best.
“Whether it’s a professor at Stanford or a ditch digger,” said San Francisco mortgage broker Leon Huntting, “most people don’t understand the loan process.”
In this confusing and pressure-filled atmosphere, it’s easy to make some mistakes. Here are some common ones that lenders and mortgage brokers see, and what you can do to prevent them.
Not fixing your credit
Mortgage brokers say they’re confounded at the number of buyers who apply for a mortgage with their fingers crossed, hoping their credit will allow them to qualify for a loan.
Before you even think about applying for a mortgage, obtain copies of your credit report and your FICO credit score. Your FICO score is the three-digit number that’s used in 75% of mortgage-lending decisions. You can order your FICO score on the Web for a fee of $12.95, which includes a copy of your credit report. (See link at left.)
Doing this at least six months in advance should give you plenty of time to challenge any errors on your report and ensure that they’re removed by the time you’re ready to apply for a loan. You can also see the legitimate factors that are hurting your score and do something about them, such as paying off an overdue bill or paying down credit card debt.
Not looking for first-time home buyers’ programs
These programs, typically sponsored by state, county or city governments, often offer better interest rates and terms than you’ll find among private lenders, said mortgage consultant Diane St. James. Some are tailored for people with damaged credit, while most can help people with little saved for a down payment.
Some of these resources are listed on St. James’ educational Web site, ABC Mortgage Consulting (see link at left). You can also call the housing agencies for your state, county and city to see what they offer.
Not getting pre-approved for a loan
Many first-time borrowers confuse being “pre-qualified” with being “pre-approved.” Pre-qualification is a pretty casual process, where a lender tells you how much money you probably can borrow based on how much money you make, how much debt you already have and how much cash you have for the down payment.
Getting pre-approval, by contrast, is a much more rigorous process and involves actually applying for a loan. You typically submit tax returns, pay stubs and other information. The lender verifies the information and checks your credit. If all goes well, the lender agrees in writing to make the loan.
In a hot or even warm real estate market, the house hunter who is only pre-qualified is a cooked goose. Home sellers and their agents give much more weight to offers being made by buyers who already have a loan lined up.
Borrowing too much money
Many people take out the biggest loan they possibly can, figuring that their incomes will eventually increase enough to make the payments comfortable. But few first-time buyers have any clear idea of how expensive homeownership can be. Not only will you shell out more for mortgage payments than you probably did for rent, but you’ll also need to cover property taxes and homeowners insurance, as well as higher bills for utilities, maintenance and repairs than you faced as a renter.
Lenders are perfectly willing to let you overextend, knowing that you’ll probably forgo vacations, retirement savings and new clothes for the kids rather than default on your mortgage.
“Mortgage money … is way too easy to get,” said Ted Grose, president of the California Association of Mortgage Brokers. “People tend to overbuy … and that can really stress family life. It’s also a formula for foreclosure.”
Instead of going to the edge of affordability, consider limiting your housing costs — mortgage payments, property taxes and homeowners insurance — to 25% or so of your gross income. That’s a much more sustainable level for most people, financial planners say, than the 33% lenders are typically willing to give you.
Not shopping around for rates and terms
Mortgage broker Allen Jackson of Bristol Home Loans in Bellflower, Calif., sees too many borrowers with decent credit getting stuck with loans meant for people with poor credit. So-called “subprime” loans are often more profitable, so less ethical mortgage brokers may push them.
If the borrower doesn’t know what the prevailing interest rates are for someone with their credit standing, Jackson said, they can easily pay thousands of dollars more than they need to. You can see a listing of loan rates by credit score at MyFico.com, and a comprehensive listing of prevailing rates and fees can be found in MSN Money’s Banking area.
Even people with a few dings on their credit can often qualify for better loans than they’re typically offered, said Grose of 1st Mortgage Advisors in Los Angeles. He believes most of the people being shunted into government loan programs, such as Federal Housing Administration (FHA) loans, would pay less if they used mortgages now being offered by private-sector lenders, such as Wells Fargo.
“The FHA loans are more profitable for the broker and they don’t have to disclose their fees,” as they do with many other mortgage loans, Grose said. “My mortgage broker buddies are going to send me hate mail, but it’s true.”
Paying junk fees
Lenders can boost their profits by adding on a variety of fees. Some may be legitimate, some may be inflated and others may be pure fluff. Lenders may charge for “document preparation,” for example, when all that involves typically is having a computer spit out a form. Or they may charge $150 for a credit check that cost them $15.
The time to challenge junk fees is not when you’re about to sign the loan papers. Use a mortgage broker or call a number of lenders to compare their loans. Ask about the interest rate, the “points” charged to get that rate (each point is 1% of the total loan amount) and any other fees the lender charges. Then you can compare terms.
Once you’ve selected a lender, you’ll be given a good-faith estimate of closing costs, which should include any fees being charged. Ask about each fee, and try to negotiate down the ones that seem excessive.
If the lender won’t negotiate, “take that estimate to someone else,” St. James said. “I’ll bet they can beat it.”
Unfortunately, this doesn’t absolutely guarantee you won’t face junk fees when it comes time to sign the loan. Many borrowers complain that they still face higher costs than were originally estimated, and so far the federal government has done little to prevent the practice. You can try challenging junk fees at this point, but most likely you’ll have to bite the bullet and pay the fees to get your loan.
Not planning for closing costs
The day you’re scheduled to get your loan, known as closing, you’ll also be expected to write a check for a number of expenses, which typically include attorney’s fees, taxes, title insurance, prepaid homeowners insurance, points and other lenders’ fees. Together, these are known as closing costs, and the total can be eye-popping: somewhere between 2% to 7% of the selling price of the house.
“Usually, when people see the closing costs, they’re like a deer in the headlights,” said mortgage broker Huntting, who works for Pacific Guarantee Mortgage. “It’s much more than they ever think it’s going to be.”
Plan for closing costs by getting a good-faith estimate from your lender as early in the loan process as possible. Make sure you have the cash on hand (or rather, in your checking account) and that it doesn’t “disappear” before closing because of sloppy bookkeeping or a last-minute emergency.
Not having enough cash on hand after closing
After borrowing too much, and scraping together every last dime for closing costs, many home buyers have nothing left in the bank to pay for anything unforeseen happening –and something unforeseen always happens.
“It costs so much just to move in,” Grose said. “Then the water heater breaks.”
Some people are so tapped out by the process, Jackson said, that they’re not able to make their first mortgage payment on time. That’s why “more and more lenders are requiring [borrowers have] three months’ reserves after closing,” Jackson said.
That’s a smart idea for borrowers, anyway. Having three months’ reserves, which means a fund equal to three months’ worth of expenses, will help you handle the added costs of homeownership with much less stress.
Tags: credit score, debt, FICO, homeowners, loan, mortgage, title insurance
Looking to buy a house? Make sure you know what will truly hurt and help your case with lenders — and don’t fall for the misinformation mortgage lenders can spread.
By Liz Pulliam Weston
Original article in MSN Money in 2002: http://moneycentral.msn.com
There’s a lot of misinformation being propagated about what does and doesn’t hurt your credit score, and much of it is coming from sources who should know better: mortgage lenders.
Now, let me say first that I’ve worked with several excellent lenders who really knew their stuff and kept up to date, not only on loan trends but on the information that’s available about credit scoring. That’s important, because the FICO credit score, in its various permutations, is used in three-quarters of all mortgage lending.
But what I heard from several lenders responding to my recent column, “8 big mortgage mistakes and how to avoid them,” was the kind of bad advice that can cost you money and keep you from getting the best loans.
So if your mortgage broker gives you any of the following advice, take a tip from me: Find a new broker.
Closing accounts can help your credit score
No, no, no. For the umpteenth time: Closing accounts can never help your credit score, and may hurt it.
Every time I write this, I get more e-mail from people who say their mortgage lenders told them exactly the opposite. It’s true that having too many open accounts can hurt your score. But once you’ve opened the accounts, you’ve done the damage. You can’t repair it by shutting the account, and you may actually make things worse.
The credit score looks at the difference between your available credit and what you’re using. Shut down accounts, and your total available credit shrinks, making your balances loom larger, which typically hurts your score.
The score also tracks the length of your credit history. Shutting older accounts can also make your credit history look younger than it actually is, which can hurt your score.
Rather than closing accounts, pay down your credit card debt. That’s something that actually can and usually will improve your score.
Checking your FICO score can hurt your credit
Unfortunately, I heard this one from a mortgage broker who is otherwise pretty smart. He was confused about which type of inquiries hurt your score and which don’t.
Applying for new credit is generally what hurts your score. Ordering a copy of your own credit report or credit score doesn’t count. Those mass inquiries made by credit card lenders, who are trying to decide whether to send you an offer for a pre-approved card, also aren’t going to hurt you, either — unless you actually take them up on their offers.
If you want to minimize the damage from credit inquiries, make sure that when you shop for a mortgage you do so in a fairly short period of time. The FICO score treats multiple inquiries in a 14-day period as just one inquiry and ignores all inquiries made within 30 days prior to the day the score is computed.
For most people, one inquiry will generally knock no more than 5 points off a score (and scores typically run from 300 to 850, so that’s not a big percentage).
Credit counseling will hurt your score as much as a bankruptcy
The current FICO formula ignores any reference to credit counseling that may be in your file. That’s been true for the last three years, after researchers at Fair, Isaac, the company that created the FICO scoring system, noticed that people getting credit counseling didn’t default on their debts any more often than anyone else.
Your ability to get a loan could still be hurt by credit counseling, however. Your current lenders may report you as late, because you’re not paying what you originally owed or because your credit counselor isn’t sending your payments in on time. Late payments do hurt your credit score.
Lenders consider other factors besides credit scores in making their decisions, as well. The factors they look at can vary widely. Most want to know your income, for example. Some want to know how much savings you have or whether you’re a homeowner. Some will find credit counseling disturbing, while others see it as a good sign.
The mortgage lenders who don’t like credit counseling generally treat its enrollees the same as if they had filed for Chapter 13 bankruptcy. Chapter 13 is the kind of bankruptcy that requires a repayment plan and is looked at somewhat more favorably than Chapter 7, which allows you to erase many of your debts. You might still be able to qualify for a loan from one of these lenders, although your interest rates will almost certainly be higher than if you had perfect credit.
If you plan to get a mortgage soon, and you’re not already behind on your debts, it’s probably smart to steer clear of credit counseling. If you’re already in trouble, however, a good credit counseling agency might be able to help you get back on track.
Your FICO isn’t the only score you need to check
This came from lenders who thought the FICO score is offered by only one of the three credit bureaus: Equifax.
In reality, all three of the bureaus offer FICO credit scores using the formula developed by Fair, Isaac, but they each give the scores a different name. At Equifax, the FICO is known as the Beacon credit score. At TransUnion, it’s called Empirica. At Experian, it goes by the unwieldy title of “Experian/Fair, Isaac Risk Model.”
Complicating matters further is that you’ll probably have three different scores from the three different bureaus, largely because the bureaus don’t all share the same data. One bureau may list more accounts for you than another, for example, and the differences (in types of accounts, payment histories, credit limits and balances) will be reflected in the score that bureau computes for you.
Because of those differences, it does make sense to pull and examine your credit reports from all three bureaus before you apply for a big loan like a mortgage. Many mortgage lenders take an average of the scores from the three bureaus, or pick the lowest score, when making their decisions, so fixing errors in all three reports before you shop for a loan is smart.
When it comes to comparing your scores, however, you may be stuck. Equifax is so far the only bureau that makes it easy for consumers to get the same FICO score that lenders see. (You can order your Equifax FICO score on MSN Money here.) The scores typically provided to consumers by Experian and TransUnion aren’t FICO scores, and they’re different from the scores these bureaus provide to lenders.
But the ways you improve your credit score are the same in any case: Correct errors. Pay your bills on time. Pay down your debt. And apply for credit sparingly.
Tags: credit history, credit score, FICO, loan, money, mortgage
Cultural Differences in Friendship patterns
May 30, 2002
The common US friendship pattern
The US is a mobile culture. Friendship in the US are said to be ’survival friendships’ because people make friends to help them settle into places. Americans move about 7 to 10 times in their lifetime. In addition, Americans also have friends they do particular activities with. For instance, they may have friends they go to films with, to golf with, to camp with etc. and these groups of friends may be entirely separate groups of people who may not even know each other.
In fact, friendships in the US are ones where there are absolutely no obligations. Friends do not expect anything of each other. In fact, an American would not ask a friend to take him/her to the airport, unless the friend was very, very close. Americans are often uncomfortable with the close reciprocity and obligation that friendship in other countries entails. Indeed, friends do not even visit or call at inconvenient times, even if the situation is urgent. And they feel free to refuse something, if it did not fit in with their plans.
Perhaps, such friend would be called acquaintances in other countries and such friendships are easily made and easily dissolved. This is probably why people are extremely pleased and surprised at their immediate acceptance by American. These friendships might also lead to the perception that American friendships are superficial and manipulative. However, Americans do have an inner core of friend, amongst whom they do feel obligation and responsibility. It is rare that people outside this inner core are accepted into that group, and if so, are accepted only after a very long time. Essentially, cultural differences are the cause of varying perceptions regarding friendships, and understanding this calls for an acceptance of an American culture, and its implications.
The pattern of friendship common in Israel
Reciprocity of obligations is what friendship in Israel mean. People grow up, go to school, army and make friends in the same area. These friendships are longstanding and deep. There are strong feelings of responsibility. In addition, friends would not hesitate to drop whatever they are doing to help another friend in need. They would lend each other money, would sacrifice for one another, and would even consider it their responsibility to offer advice on personal matters, if they do feel that their friend is going astray or needs help.
Indeed, there might be a period of formality before people become friends. There would be a wait before a new person actually feels a sense of belonging to the group. Once they become part of a friendship, then there are ties of obligation and expectations. It is this formality and this obligation that Americans find extremely stifling. Many Americans may become impatient at the formality and the long wait to be accepted. Also, for American, these obligations are only to be expected of the close inner circle of friends. In fact, Americans may even try to avoid such friendships because they find them burdensome.
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Tags: cultural differences, friendship